The panoramic view of mountain peaks provided a majestic backdrop to the cozy gathering of
When
The buttery scent of popcorn wafted through the building as the
After
a drizzly Friday with clouds glowering overhead, Saturday dawned with
mists rolled back to reveal snow-covered peaks behind the nearer dark
mountainsides. And cars of women from
Presentations included
A delightful lunch and conversation followed, and as women left, many were encouraged about what God would enable them to do in their own churches with His help.
The
national women’s ministry team enjoyed worshipping with the Arvada
congregation on Sunday, and spent the following day doing such things
as editing the new Women’s Ministries Handbook, evaluating one-year and
three-year goals, and making plans for the next Women’s Ministries
Convention, June 11, 2005. As the team left
How
have we been “Women Reaching Women” this year? One goal of our
Thrivent-funded “Women Reaching Women” program these past 18 months has
been to involve more people in our local women’s ministries. One way to
reach out is to plan events that will attract and involve women of all
age groups. This month we feature two of these successful events.
English Tea at Ebenezer
On
the eighth of May, nearly ten dozen women of all ages were transported
out of their everyday lives for a few hours. We gathered at
With
satisfied appetites, we turned to our speaker, Mary Pierce, who brought
us tears and laughter and contemplation. She showed us, with her
stories and lively power point visuals, how we lose our joy and how we
get it back. If we let God change our minds, leaving behind things like
resentment, entitlement and limitations, he will change our lives,
bringing forgiveness, rest, and joy.
One
of the women rated this event “110%”. As it came to an end, one
granddaughter sadly proclaimed, “The magic is gone”. But, judging by
the smiles on all the faces, we all had some ideas for transformation
brewing in our minds as we headed back out to the real world.
-Chris Dyrud
Jesus is…the Quilt of Life
The
Fireside Room filled with Judy Torkelson’s homemade quilts warmly
welcomed nearly 100 women to an evening of inspiration and reflection.
It was the 2004 fall kick-off of the Bethel Women’s Ministries
Fellowship in
This
fall was different. In addition to an eye-catching bulletin board, and
notices in everyone’s mailboxes, the church was papered with flyers
announcing the event – even on the bathroom mirrors! Women from
neighboring churches were also encouraged to come for the evening.
The resulting blend was rich – a
mixture of twenty-something and seventy-something voices praising God,
a young seminary wife’s prayer requests for a former seminarian friend
now serving a church, a mature grandmother’s prayer, and a baby quilt
given to the soon-to-be-mom with the nearest due date – all tasty hors
d’oeuvres before the main course, Judy Torkelson. Judy, a local
farmer’s wife, master quilter, and Christian Women’s Club speaker, fed
the minds and hearts of all, as she taught life lessons from Jesus
using the quilts surrounding her. The dessert was the camaraderie of
young and old around tables set with sewing themes – and, oh yes, apple
crisp and ice cream.
Are
you ready to begin the next set of Women’s Ministry national projects?
You gave generously last year (May 2003-April 2004) and we are eager to
tell you what we hope to accomplish together this year as we partner
with women in churches from coast to coast.
Meet Potifar Souina and his family. Potifar spent the past school year in
We
want to support women who are studying God’s Word, especially those in
preparation for service in His Kingdom. Our project for Lutheran
Brethren Schools this year is to raise $3,500 to educate women at the
Seminary. First, to enable seminary wives to audit courses with their
husbands, we will provide funds for child care for those who need it.
Secondly, as funds permit, we will provide scholarships for women who
wish to further their education at the Seminary to be of service to
other women in our churches in the
For the second year in a row, we will support
It
is also an encouragement to hear the stories of God’s faithfulness in
our home congregations. In celebration of 50 years of church planting,
the Home Missions department has asked all of us to share our stories
of God at work in our churches. Some of these testimonies were printed
as a “draft copy” and distributed during the 2004 CLB Annual
Convention. The final edition will be printed for the 2005 convention.
Our support of $3,500 will make this possible. Let’s share our stories
as well as our funds!
We
also have a $5,000 Women’s Ministries Project. This year we are
focusing on coming alongside our current Pastor’s wives, and providing
them with retreats where they can be refreshed, encouraged, and
provided with training in a retreat setting. Plans are underway in the
Eastern District already. This year we hope to provide help for
Pastor’s wives in at least three of our six districts. Will you pray
for the planning of these events, and the funding of them as well?
Last
year’s Women’s Ministries Project focused on Seminary wives. We have
$1,000 remaining in that fund that will be used throughout this year in
continuing the mentoring relationship between sem wives and current
pastor’s wives, providing gift certificates, and a spring luncheon.
How was the first Saturday Women’s Day?
Anticipation
was growing. How many women would come? Would this new venture of
meeting on Saturday succeed? Anxiety mounted as well. Was the former
pattern of a Tuesday meeting during the CLB convention too ingrained
for women to try something new? Unavoidable conflicts were recognized.
Was the centennial celebration at Bethel LBC in
Praise
and worship lifted our hearts at the beginning of the morning, and we
appreciated the music interspersed throughout the day by a Triumph
women’s praise team; Cathie Scheid, Kim Bedoe, Deb Hesse, and Sharon
Jons. We also enjoyed gathering in the spacious sanctuary which was
decorated with a multitude of banners sewn by sisters in Christ from
across the land.
One of the reasons for gathering with representation from coast to coast, from the
Who was the keynote speaker this year?
Cindi McMenamin, a pastor’s wife from
She
asked, “Do you truly have a love relationship with God?” Some of us may
have walked with the Lord for many years, yet we often grow complacent,
we get busy, we lose the “magic”. We’re “on cruise control” in our
relationship with Him, rather than in love with the God who has pursued
our heart.
How do we regain a passion for Him?
What happened this past year?
Projects
We
joined together in partnership to support several projects. These were
highlighted verbally during the convention, a display board in the
narthex used many photos to detail their progress, and a Power Point
presentation during our offering also visually portrayed what God has
done through our gifts. Here is an update for you: The well project
which we supported January – May 2003 was not yet completed at our 2003
convention, but it is now! Pictures emailed by the Szobody family
arrived in the World Missions office the week of our convention, were
printed and displayed for us to see. “There’s water in the camp!” was a
joyful phrase expressed by seminarians and their families in
A
2003-04 project was the S.W.E.E.T. project (Seminary Wives Encouraging,
Equipping, and Training), which included a fall retreat planned by the
National Ministry Team at Inspiration Point Bible Camp. During the
year, current pastor’s wives were matched with senior seminary wives as
prayer partners, and phone cards were provided to the seminary wives to
contact their prayer partners. A spring luncheon with an emphasis on
hospitality was given also, along with a gift of money for each of the
wives. Several seminary wives attended our WMCLB convention, shared a
song with us and were introduced, sharing their thanks even tearfully,
for what this has meant in their lives.
We also contributed to four projects for CLB ministries. In the World Missions area, we gave funds for women’s retreats in
Women Reaching Women
Chloe
Koslowsky, our Director of Women’s Ministries, is on her second round
of training visits to each of our districts, funded through our “Women
Reaching Women” grant
from Thrivent Financial for Lutherans. Her first year focused on
teaching networking with a focus on being Women of the Word, and this
second year emphasizing partnering as churches and districts to help
minister to women in our churches, and in our communities. With the
District Presidents now part of the National Ministry Team, they are
being trained and are helping to train people in their districts. Much
of the training material is being collected and printed as a Women’s
Ministry Handbook in a 3-ring binder format which will be able to be
updated, and should be available to each church as Chloe makes her
visits this fall. Our goals are to have 75% of all of our active
women’s groups attend at least one training event, and to have one new
women’s group start in each district by this fall. Will you help us
reach that goal?
What else happened at this convention?
A Tribute given
This
year, along with introducing the members of the National Women’s
Ministry Team (NWMT) that has been working this year, we paid tribute
to Kay Lundgren, our national secretary whose unexpected death in
January saddened us all. She was a special woman, and we will miss her
laughter and joy among us. God provided the willing skills of Linda
Simonson, who was part of the NWMT as a transition member this year, to
be acting secretary until this convention.
New Leaders elected
Leadership
is important in our local churches, our districts, and our national
organization. This year Elaine Hansen completed four years of leading
our national team. She served three of those years as President of
National Women’s Missionary Fellowship (NWMF), and this year as
Chairman of WMCLB. We thank God for her leadership, and for the
provision of Janet Spencer, Hillside LBC,
Missionary Greetings
There were no current missionaries at the convention, but several letters were read from these women who serve abroad.
New Projects
Five new projects for 2004-05 were presented, which will be highlighted on this page next month.
How were the workshops?
They
were fabulous! The afternoon found women learning, sharing, and
drinking in ideas to bring home. From the intimate “Passing the Peach
Pie” instructional workshop for transitioning leadership, to the larger
“How to” Bible study and “Pear-ing” mentorship workshops, and all those
in between, women gave immensely positive feedback. Many wanted to see
some of the same ones repeated next year. We’re already planning to
include some of their material in the Handbook which will be available
in the fall.
I was at my daughter’s track meet today. Despite the warm spring sunshine, I shivered a little, sitting on a calico comforter on the dampish grass, as a brisk wind blew across the freshly plowed farm field next to the exposed track. I concentrated on my daughter’s lanky body poised to run across the rubberized surface in measured steps before hurling herself upwards in an arching leap over the high jump bar. “Lord, help her to make it!” I breathed. He did, and she did!
The next jumper wasn’t on her team. I tried not to say, “Lord, don’t let her make it,” but I still wished it.
Jump after jump, girl after girl was eliminated from the group, as the bar clattered to the ground. Although I really knew it wasn’t very nice to secretly think “Don’t make it!” the thought kept entering my head. Especially if the girls were on an opposing team. Of course it was natural to want my daughter to do well, but probably not at the expense of others – not that my wishing could do anything! Still, I was a little surprised at my attitude.
No, Rachel wasn’t the winner at this meet. She didn’t even place in the top six this time. She’s only a sophomore, after all. But I was intrigued by Rachel’s response to her rivals in contrast to mine. I was equally interested in her teammates’ responses.
Track is a team sport, and the team wins as a whole entity, competing against other teams, but it’s also a very competitive individual sport. Each individual competes against others on her own team, as well as those on other teams, for the winning jump, the winning throw, the winning sprint time, to be the best in each event.
Yet, Rachel was cheering for her teammates at every try. “Nice jump!” “Good form! You just caught the bar with your foot – you’ll get it next time!” They checked with each other for tips on what they’d done wrong (since they couldn’t see themselves!), genuinely spurring each other on.
Finally, there was only one of their teammates left. Still, I heard, “Wow! Great jump!” “Oh, good, she made it!” for the girl in blue, as well as for their own maroon and gold teammate as they vied for first place. Then maroon missed. Yet, maroon still cheered loudly as blue sailed over the bar!
What does a track meet have to do with women’s ministries?
We are each individuals, in many cases struggling to follow the path Christ has laid out for our lives. We are trying for our “personal best,” jumping as high as we can. We learn lessons as He coaches us, only to have the bar raised, and find that we have more to learn. But sometimes we take our eyes off the bar He has raised for us, and instead, measure our progress against those around us, and compete against them, instead of cheering for them.
We are team members in our local churches. As women,
many of you meet together regularly, perhaps in Bible study, a monthly fellowship
meeting, or at periodic outreach events. Organized as a Women’s Ministries
group or not, simply by virtue of your being a woman, you have an effect on
other women. Are you secretly wishing that they wouldn’t be as talented, as
gracious, as pretty, or even as used of God, as you? Or are you cheering them
on to be all they can be in Christ? When a woman expresses giftedness, or an
interest in an activity that is not “traditionally” seen or used in the church,
how do you, personally, or as a group, react? I was intrigued as I learned that
the small rural community of
Did you know that you can cheer for the other teams that are near you? District events give this opportunity. Here, a small team with specialized gifts can shine and we can learn from them. Here, a large team can share its wealth of information, personnel, and depth of resources with others who have less. Connect, here, with others to share Sunday School ideas, loan or borrow VBS scenery, costumes, video or audio tapes, and Women’s Ministries resources.
Lastly, we are all members of a larger team of the Church of the Lutheran Brethren, and a subset of Women’s Ministries of the CLB. How can you cheer for this larger team? Pray for each other! Come to national events to meet, network, and partner with one another. Meet us Saturday, June 12, at Triumph in Moorhead, MN!
Over 100 ladies gathered at
The theme for the weekend was centered around a booklet
written by Robert Boyd Munger, My Heart –
Christ’s Home. The key verse from
Ephesians
Christ will live in any human heart that welcomes him. Rev. 3:20 reminds us that Christ is knocking at the door of our heart and is waiting for us to simply open the door, ask him to come in and be our Lord and Savior.
The booklet looks at seven rooms where Christ can be involved in our lives. First is the Study, or library, which is the control center for our thoughts. Here we are to be aware of Christ’s presence, purity and power. Next is the Dining Room where our appetites and desires for food are satisfied. For food that satisfies, do the will of your Heavenly Father. Then comes the Living Room which is a secluded, quiet room where good talks and fellowship occur.
The fourth room is the important Workroom where you
can answer the question, “What are you producing with your life for the
The Rec Room is the fifth room where your joy may be full and fellowship may be found. Then comes the Bedroom where relationships of love in marriage unite and two truly become one.
The last room
The Word was also shared through times of Praise and Worship. Kedra Larsen who has been working with
Lutheran Bible Translators in the field of ethnomusicology, also shared how she
translates the Word into tribal music. Kedra is originally from
A goal to raise $1,500 for the Venbergs, missionaries to
The money raised for the missionaries was sent with $1,270 that was gathered by VBS children at Hope LB this summer. According to Lori Christopherson, Retreat Chairman, $1,390 was sent for the African Wall project and $1,880 was sent for the Satellite Phone System for the Venbergs for a total of $3,270. All who attended the retreat were blessed and pleased to be able to share with our African missionaries and friends.
Saturday afternoon provided free time with an opportunity to learn a new craft while fellowshipping with ladies from the district. Ladies from Hope LB church offered these classes: Hardanger Heart Embroidery – Pam Neilson, Embellished Votive Holders – Dianne Sunde, decoupage enhancing decorative plates and glass etching – Julie Sanborn and Audrey Hibbard, English Paper Piecing with Grandma’s Flower Garden pattern – Brenda Thorsen.
The Pacific Northwest District WMCLB looks forward to
meeting
The Fall 2004 Women’s Retreat will be coordinated by the
ladies at
-Brenda Duncan Thorsen, Pacific Northwest District Secretary